Thursday, May 23, 2013

Favorite Things Friday #4

I constantly feel like time is going by too quickly for me to even process what is happening, lately. Busy, busy, busy, busy! I can't believe another week has passed already!


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These jellies are just too cute. Can anyone who owns a pair of jellies tell me if they are uncomfortable? I remember back when they were all the rage in the 90s; I had a pair and I seem to recall that the plastic hurt my feet, so I haven't been able to take advantage of this great trend revival. =(


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Yarn-wrapped antlers!


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My friend sent me this video and it made me crack up! I find it fascinating how often times something that wouldn't be funny just on its own is suddenly hilarious when someone else finds it hilarious. The power of mirror neurons? I'm sure it helped that the video was so cute.


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Inkkas shoes! I LOVE them, and I want a pair so badly, but I'm sad that they no longer make the original style sole, like these shoes have. To me, they look so much nicer than the new sole style, but they don't have any of the original style in my size! So I'm hemming and hawwing about buying them. If you prefer the original sole style like I do, contact them (there's a "contact us" button at the bottom of the page!) and let them know; if they get enough people telling them they prefer the old style they might bring it back, according to an email I received from them in response to my inquiry about size availability.


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This picture made me smile! What a priceless snapshot. I wonder if their teacher let them watch the movie. =)


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We Are Yoke's cards (and other products) are so cheerful I can't get over it! I love this birthday card design.


How about you? Anyone else feel like they can barely keep up with their own lives? Haha.

Life Lately: May 5-23, 2013

Lengua torta! From a place down the road. If you've never tried lengua (beef tongue), you absolutely should; it's the most tender meat there is, I swear. SO GOOD.

Some of my favorite Graze snacks. Honeycomb Crunch, Summer Berry Flapjack, Toffee Apple, Herby Bread Basket, and the open one in the front is El Picante.

An orange slice from when James was squeezing oranges for citrus-ade. I thought the light coming through it was pretty.

Mandarin oranges. These ones were sooo tart and flavorful! Mmm! I think they're so pretty with the twigs and leaves still on. We'd just gotten home from the grocery store when I ate one and I had to put my shoes back on and walk right back to buy more!

Tried Magnum Double Caramel ice cream bars for the first time and OH MAN are they good!! Totally worth the price.

Purchased a teddy bear suitcase on Ebay and I LOVE IT! It's going to make a great purse; it fits my wallet, umbrella, Powershot, and keys just perfectly, with a little extra space for something else. I plan to make a fabric lining for it to help keep it from getting damaged.

A flower; I'm not sure what kind, but they're pretty common around here, and are very similar to the blooms on the "bottle brush" trees. Anyone out there who can tell me what they are?

Tuesday the 21st was election day, in Los Angeles; we were voting for mayor and a few other things.

Flowers in front of a house on my street. They smelled really lovely. =)

Being naughty for a quick moment, and snapping an outfit shot at work.

I got summoned for jury duty for the first time, this week! Yikes!

I thought the sunlight through our (extensive collection of) dish soaps was pretty. Apparently we need to wash the windows, though.

Hope everyone is having a lovely week!

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

30 Goals to Accomplish Before I Turn 30

This year, as my 25th birthday approached, I found myself thinking about where I am in life, and whether or not it matches up with where I had hoped/dreamed/planned to be at 25 years of age. I was spot on in some areas (like having found the love of my life!) but in others I felt like I was missing the mark by a pretty wide margin; I feel like I've wasted a lot of time. My 25th birthday came and went in March, and I started to consider what I want to accomplish before I turn 30. Maybe I can even make up for some of the time I "lost" before turning 25! But, of course, thinking about and actually doing are two different things, and I've been thinking about it for long enough, so today I sat myself down and made myself put it in writing. I decided to only list things that I can accomplish by myself (for the most part), because I need to prove to myself that I CAN stick to it and complete the list. So, without further ado, here is my list:

30 Before 30:

1) Create a budget and STICK TO IT for at least a year (hopefully by the end of the year it will be ingrained, haha).
2) Earn $7000 via OneTrueTree in one year -- this can include crafts show sales as well as internet sales. I know it doesn't seem like a lot, but it would be significantly more than I've ever earned from my business in one year. I'd like to make my business' success a major priority instead of essentially being a hobby the way it has been for the past few years. When (not allowing myself the luxury of "if"!) I achieve this goal I'll update it with a new goal amount.
3) Raise blackberry plants and have at least one successful crop. I'll be buying the plants this November, and preparing for them beforehand! I'm really excited about this one.
4) Take a dance class, whether it's a dance meetup or something more traditional.
5) Take a yoga class.
6) Attend a crafts fair.
7) VEND at a festival or crafts fair.
8) Make a free pattern to share.
9) Learn enough Spanish to be able to hold an actual conversation.
10) Do The Color Run and/or Run or Dye (actually running it isn't a requirement, but would be nice).
11) Dance with James.
12) Visit my childhood friend/brother from another mother, Jeremy, in NYC.
13) Take at least one art class of some sort. This includes pottery, etc.
14) Make a pattern to sell.
15) Go swimming outside of a swim-class setting.
16) Take James on at least one date -- this means I'm planning and paying.
17) Buy a ukulele and learn to play a couple songs on it. Bonus: See Jake Shimabukuro in concert!
18) Read 10 books. This bar is set pretty low; once I accomplish it I'll update it with a new goal amount.
19) Make this blog as successful as I am able.
20) Maintain a blog post queue of at least three posts for a minimum of 6 weeks.
21) Make a media kit.
22) Do a sexy photoshoot the month of my 30th birthday.
23) Complete another 30-day project.
24) Complete either a 52-week project, or a 365-day project (or both!).
25) Grow my savings account to at least $8,000; preferably $10,000. Start also saving for old age.
26) Create separate PayPal and bank accounts for my business. (This is something I should have done a long time ago!)
27) Make some sort of food at least once a month.
28) Visit my mom at least once; preferably at least twice.
29) Visit my sister at least once; preferably at least twice.
30) Grow my hair at least to the bottom of my shoulder blades (this will have to wait for the fall, because my fickle heart is set on a cute bob now that the weather is warm!).

As I work toward accomplishing these goals, I'll post about their progress and completion (if applicable; some goals don't easily lend themselves to bloggable updates!) and update this post with links to all of the posts pertaining to each goal.

It feels really strange to be getting older. I'm the youngest child in my family, so I've always been used to being thought of as "the baby," "the youngest," etc. And I'm still the youngest, but... part of me feels like I'm not "young" anymore. Sheesh, I'm only 25, and sometimes I feel like an old lady! I think it's just a period of personal growth, for me; learning to accept who I am as I... well... as I grow up! Learning how to balance the fact that I am getting older with the fact that I'm still a young woman; I think part of the problem is that I've always felt "older" than other people my age due to having had a deeply complex childhood that left me with a lot of "life experience" at a very young age, yet, somewhat paradoxically, I've never really had to grow up in the same ways that my peers did. The more typical "rite of passage" kinds of things. And I do genuinely feel like I'm finally growing up, in more ways that just my age. It's simultaneously something I'm happy about and something that makes me uncertain and uncomfortable, and a little scared. I feel like the "extremes" of my personality and lifestyle are stretching and shrinking to become more equal and harmonious with one another, and it's a strange thing to experience. Change is always a little scary, I suppose.

Well, that turned into a bit of a ramble! I suppose what I'm trying to say is that I'm growing a lot and I hope you guys come along on this journey with me! Does anyone have their own 30 before 30 list (or 25 before 25 or 101 in 1001, or just a general list of goals!) they'd like to share? Post a link in a comment! I'd love to read them. =)

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Outfit: Teapots at 24th Street Theatre

cardigan: thrifted
dress: Wholesale-Dress.net
belt: vintage; estate sale // similar
mother-of-pearl leaf ring: Wal-Mart (about a million years ago) // apparently the exact same one is available at Target
hammered silver rings: frankringman on Etsy
shoes: Blowfish (several years ago) // similar

Please forgive my puffy fingers in that last shot; they're a bit swollen due to the heat. It's really warming up, now, in Los Angeles; for a while in April and the beginning of May the weather was super unpredictable. One day it would be in the nineties and the next it would be in the sixties, which was really frustrating because we were all hoping that the weather would finally warm up (anything below 70 is considered "cold" in LA!). For the past week or two, though, the weather has been between 75 or so and about 90 degrees; right now it's 79 degrees and while it's pleasant, this dress is SUPER warm, so it was pretty uncomfortable outside. I wanted to get some outfit shots of what I wore to the play on Sunday, since this is my new favorite dress (even though it looks like I won't be able to wear it again until the fall, at this rate!). It fits me like a dream and the teapot print is super cute and quirky!

Now I'm off to change into something less warm! It worked on Sunday because it was nighttime and we were in air conditioned building, but phew! Not today!

Hope you all are having a marvelous week, so far!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Walking the Tightrope at The 24th Street Theatre

Saturday night, James and I and his parents and grandmother all packed into a car and went to see Walking the Tightrope at the 24th Street Theatre, a truly charming theater near downtown LA that used to be a carriage house. Think exposed brick (with old-fashioned brickwork!) and ceiling beams with twinkle lights all around and cushy benches to wait on, where your program is also your ticket. Backstage.com says this about the theater and the play:


"Part of the mission of 24th Street Theatre, besides creating a culturally friendly atmosphere in its mostly Hispanic neighborhood, is to expose the wonders and healing powers of the arts to the children of its community. The centerpiece of the company’s current season is the West Coast premiere of “Walking the Tightrope,” chosen with a determination to make it accessible for all ages. With an early curtain time and an audience liberally peppered with very young, very vulnerable faces, what unfolds is anything but the tale of Aladdin and his magic lamp. Instead, Mike Kenny’s diaphanous memory play deals with the hefty topics of grief and death—not the usual kiddie fare[...]

The other challenge with “Walking the Tightrope” is the manuscript itself, unique in its lack of any stage directions or descriptions. There’s only Kenny’s lyrical stream-of-consciousness dialogue spilling out of the characters like a lengthy tone poem. The premise is simple. Every summer a little girl named Esme visits her grandparents, but this year something integral is missing. Esme is greeted at the station only by her grandfather, who, instead of explaining that his wife has died, invents a fanciful tale that she has joined the circus. In offering this answer to the void Nana’s absence causes, he not only evades the hurt Esme will feel but is able to bury his own heartache a little while longer."



Full disclosure: While I've seen multiple musicals, this is, perhaps, the... second??... play I have ever seen in my life. The only other one I can think of was A Midsummer Night's Dream when I was a teenager. I am beyond far from an expert on the theater or anything that is involved in the theater; these are simply my personal thoughts and feelings about the play. To be honest, it took a lot of getting used to. In the first 20 or 30 seconds, I found it jarring that the music had stopped playing! I suppose I had instinctually expected an opening song. Being so near the actors made me feel somewhat exposed. I also had a "wait, what?" moment when they started walking down the aisles in the audience. Definitely a new experience for me.

First, let me say that overall, I truly enjoyed it. It was sweet and very WELL played (I couldn't tell if Mark Bramhall, who played "Granddad," was a native Brit or not -- his accent was INCREDIBLE!) by all of the actors, and left me with a tight ball of bittersweetness in my throat as we walked out.

That said, I did have some issues with it. The most trivial of which was simply that in a theater that small, Paige Lindsey White (Esme) was WAY too loud at some points! Perhaps it wasn't quite as painful in the back; we were seated in the second row, which was between 15 and maybe 5 feet or so away from the actors, depending on where they were on the stage. Like I said: pretty trivial, especially when you consider that she played her role magnificently, otherwise. The larger issue for me was the clown. It takes about a quarter or a third of the play for it to sink in that the clown is apparently intended to be the watchful and loving spirit of Esme's "Nanna," or at least something similar (it was a bit of an "ah ha!" moment, for me, and enabled me to better understand what was happening). Perhaps simply an embodiment of the love, sadness, and concern of those who've passed on about the people they've left behind -- emotions which were all beautifully displayed by Tony Duran. He was equally as good an actor as the other two (if not better, given that he had no lines!), but I can't help but criticize the choice to cast a male actor in the role in the first place. Then again, maybe a female actor would have been too literal.

The biggest cringe moment I had was when the clown bent over a sleeping Esme to delicately stroke her hair; in today's world, the image of a person (let alone a clown?) crouching over the bed of a sleeping child might incite in the viewer an instinctual alarm that would take them "out" of the scene and effectively mar what would otherwise be a deeply poignant moment. One person in our little group said in reference to that moment "well, let's face it; that was obscene!"

I was also grateful that executive director of 24th Street Theatre, Jay McAdams, gave an introduction before the play and mentioned that it was originally written in the form of a poem (or something like it) and contained nothing but dialogue between the two characters. This helped when certain refrains were repeated at the close of scenes; without that introduction I think I (personally; your mileage may vary) would have found the repetition grating and unnecessary.

Minus those few drawbacks, however, the play was certainly lovely, sentimental, and moving -- which, at the end of the day, was the entire purpose! I can't really sum up the positive aspects of the play better than the backstage.com review I linked above (you should definitely read the whole thing!), so I don't think I'll even try!

Afterward, since it was closing night, they served sparkling cider, fruit, and a tasty vanilla and strawberry cake. Yummy! All of the photos were taken then. Forgive me for the quality; I hadn't thought to bring my DSLR.


Gratuitous selfy in the mirrors they had hanging on the wall/ceiling.

I understand that they will be going on tour with this play throughout the US and Canada, so if you'd like to see it, keep an eye out! I definitely recommend it.

What did you do this weekend? =)